Ok Bachelor number three turned out to be about 15 years older than his photo , with it seems no sense of humour which one does definately need to associate with me. Crossed off the list. Met another one for coffee...yeah nah!
Are my standards too high maybe I wonder? No I dont think so.
Last weekend must have been the weekend for catching up with ex's. I dont have a lot of them but a couple I have remained friends with after we have parted company.
Last weekend I caught up with one I havent seen for about 6 years for a drink on friday night, he hasnt changed. He is still a madman with hair longer than mine and by that I mean its down past his waist. Hair a girl would kill for. I dont date guys with hair longer than mine I decided back then and since friday have reiterated that statement to myself.
Saturday I had a couple of offers but decided to put a pot of mulled wine on the fire and stay in and watch the James Bond Movie instead. It was cold out and I wanted to be lazy.
Sunday I had brunch with another ex whom I was very very enamoured of when we were together but sadly his drinking created problems for us me not being such a big drinker and him being an every night drinker. We catch up regularly and I still look at him and think about the great times we had when he was sober, We spent a lot of time out on our motor bikes touring here and there for lunch and coffee and coastal rides etc and many hours debating current affairs and watching the history channel on sky tv. Nerdy I know but he was one I could really get into discussions with, we were on the same page a lot of the time.
Sunday After brunch I spent in my vege garden its huge and picked Cauli, brocolli, beets, spinach, silverbeet, and Kholrabi for dinner that night which was very yummy and I so love my veges but alas I wasnt to get to enjoy them that night. I got a message from a someone I have been corresponding with saying
"hey lets met and go to a movie tonight"...so I called him back and we decided the 6.30pm movie looked good. It was 5.10pm at this stage and it takes me 35-40 mins to get to the theatre so I was a whirlwind of shower, dress, makeup, ring the Aunty to let her know I have a date, she lives vicarously through me and loves my dating regime, it keeps her entertained for hours lol.
SSooooo anyway I get there 5 mins before the movie starts hoping like hell this guy isnt a total creepo, txt him and let him know I was by the doors and he comes bouncing around the corner with a huge grin looking all cheeky and cute and I am thinking thank god he is smiling thats a good start. People who take themselves seriously all the time I can do without in my flitter fluttery world.
We laughed during the movie, out loud, which is great because so many chuckle but dont actually laugh in case someone hears them, god forbid. I dont, I laugh, laughing is great fun. Then afterwards we went to a cafe and he bought me a hot chocolate and a chocolate afghan biscuit....it was a very cold evening. Talked for ages over our chocolate and then he escorted me to my car and asked if we could meet again when he is back from his business trip at the end of the week.
All in all a lovely evening, glad I decided to go. A very nice guy so far so we will see what happens. We are meeting for a drink after work on friday this week. Watch this space.........
He sounds good! I like that you really laughed at the same things and that he took you out for hot chocolate after. Very sweet! So fingers crossed for this fellow...
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